With my wife I can be my true authentic self.
No need to hide or be someone I'm not, I can just be me.
Safe to me, means honesty and trust and being able to have conversations where we can voice how we feel.
There are no secrets, because there is no need to hide things from each other, when your relationship is safe.
It also means she holds me accountable.
In lots of ways I feel like she knows me, better than I know myself.
Safe means being able to cry, grieve, laugh, love, and dream - together.
- Jase, 45, Napier, New Zealand.